What’s Your Flirting Style?
A snapshot of how you show interest, built on five flirting styles from published communication research. Get your blend, your lead style, and one thing to try this week.
Answer as you usually are, not as you wish to be. Every question has a pass.
For fun, not a clinical test. Inspired by published research on personality and flirting, but it isn’t a validated psychological test and it can’t tell you who you’ll click with.
Free, no signup needed to play. Scored on your device: your answers are never sent anywhere.
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- 🔥 The Spark You flirt by closing the distance.
- 🌊 The Deep Diver Small talk? Never heard of her.
- 😜 The Tease Your love language is light roasting.
- 🕊️ The Gentle One Respectful, low-pressure, hard to read.
- 🎩 The Classic You like a clear script: someone leads, someone follows.
If your top two are within 8 points you get a hybrid, like “Chemistry and Connection.”
How this works
Built on the five flirting styles described by Hall, Carter, Cody & Albright (2010): physical, sincere, playful, polite and traditional. The questions are our own. We renamed “traditional” as The Classic and define it as liking a clear script about who leads and who follows, for any gender. The original research used mostly heterosexual samples, so treat this as a playful snapshot, not a measurement.
You get a score from 0 to 100 on each part, a blend, and a lead result. Close calls become hybrids, and exact ties get one tie-break question (never a coin flip). A few light checks (answering very fast, picking the same spot every time, skipping most questions) lower the confidence of a result.
Privacy: scoring happens in your browser. Share links only contain the result name. Nothing is saved unless you’re logged in and tap a save button, and you choose whether other members can see it.
Sources: Hall, J. A., Carter, S., Cody, M. J., & Albright, J. M. (2010). Individual differences in the communication of romantic interest: Development of the Flirting Styles Inventory. Communication Quarterly, 58(4). International Personality Item Pool (ipip.ori.org), public domain. Our questions are original wording.